After Sex is a film from 2001, well. The one with Virginia Madsen is. There is another film from the French called After Sex in 1997, and then another from 2007 which is also called After Sex.
So, because it wouldn’t make sense otherwise, we’ll make sure we stick with the 2001 Virginia Madsen After Sex version.
Although that might not also be the best decision. This is another that I actually wasn’t looking forward to rewatching. In fact, it was pretty close to the bottom of the list and another I slipped into the DVD player with a sigh and me wondering what it was I was actually doing with my life.
After Sex, is a comedy drama type of film. Kate (Brooke Shields) receives a depressing phone call from her ex to let her know she’s now been officially divorced for a year. In a bid to make herself feel better she phones her friend Traci (Virginia Madsen) and basically tells her she’s off to Palm Springs for a girls weekend. She phones another mutual friend, Vicki (Maria Pitillo) to tell her the same who phones a fourth friend, Janet (Stephanie Venditto) and it’s all arranged.
Traci, Vicki and Janet are all partnered off already and in various stages of their relationships, but one of their gal pals needs their help so obviously they’re on board. Before you know it they’re off for a night of womanly revelary. Good for them.

Kate meets the bloke she injured on the Golf course earlier, because of course. Traci meets a nice chap at the bar she’s seemingly got a lot in common with. Vicki and Janet end up talking to some other, less desirable but harmless enough Dudes.
Vicki ends up putting her head between on the gentlemans lap, NO NOT LIKE THAT – She’s sick all over him after one too many cocktails… Tch. And, Janet – Well Janet ends up with one of the others.
In short, the girls all end up kind of paired off, there are some more awkward than others and the degrees of what we see differ. Kate and Janet both take their men home, Traci seemingly stops short and Vicki, well Vicki wonders about if anyone is eating her complimentary hotel chocolate.

All good, right?
Well. Not really.
Kate wakes up alone, despite her asking for her man to stay the night. She’s sad that she has been let down again. She joins the other girls at breakfast, and there are obvious regrets about the night before from the three attached ladies. They somehow manage to pin and or blame their debauchery on Kate. Not really sure that’s fair, or accurate, but before you know it Kate is storming off.
And, honestly you can’t really blame her – I mean, c’mon Girls, take some responsibility for your actions…
The trip is cut short and the ride home is strained.
When they all arrive back at home, but the night away has changed them all in some way, and it isn’t long before the fellas they left back at home pick up on this.
Janet is the first to fall, she keeps her relationship with the man she met in Palm Springs going, her husband, John (Dan Cortese) finds out who then tells the rest of the husbands. Traci is next under suspicion from her husband Tony (D.B. Sweeney) and when Traci won’t confirm or deny anything he runs to the other husbands and before you can blink it’s Vicki under suspicion from her husband, Matt (Johnathon Schaech).
But maybe, just maybe Tony shouldn’t have pressed the issue with Traci…
… And maybe, just maybe Kate and Janet need to have a sit down at some point and talk, things, through.
I won’t say more than that. I’ve actually said more than I meant to do already, it’s not the easiest film to try and describe without going into more detail.
Did I enjoy it? Well. Yes, actually – Yes and no – It was a very different viewing experience than when I first watched it some 10 to 15 years ago (!!) – BUT – I’m a very different person also. I think my enjoyment might have come more from experience than anything else. Perhaps I wasn’t mature enough to appreciate the film the first time around.
It’s sort of a coming of age movie for grown ups. One, not so much about camaraderie among friends that you’ll think you’ll have for life. But more the reality of what can happen with those friends you’ll think you’ll have for life. A less optimistic view of the world.
The whole movie is interspersed with scene relevant commentary from Drew Pinksky and Adam Carolla, which. I’m not sure if they were a thing or not at the time the movie was released, but. Their inclusion doesn’t seem to make a great deal of sense now. Especially to us in the UK who never really got Drew Pinksky and Adam Carolla anyways. And I might even argue we should be thankful for that after this offering from them.
Virginia Madsen plays a blinder in this one, I wouldn’t say it’s her best work, but man – Yeah – This is still the kind of work you want to see from her. Cute, quirky, honest and earnest. It’s a different side of her acting range than we normally see. Gone is the strong femme fatale type, hell even the “sexy” type. Instead we see a very real person portrayed, one that everyone will be able to emphasise with on some level. It’s a very human, vulnerable turn that she pulls off here.
Got to be fair to Brooke Shields in this one as well, I thought her go at Kate was pretty damn good as well. I’ve not seen her a lot in films, not normally my cup of tea, but – Yeah, fair play, I can see what some of the fuss is about her here.
Of course, Brooke Shields and Virginia Madsen would get together again years later for The Hot Flashes, another film about the highs and lows of life as a woman. Virginia Madsen has also acted with D B Sweeney before in the popular 80’s film Fire with Fire and would do again on the TV Show, The Event.
Would I recommend it? Well, if you’d asked me that before a second, more grown up viewing, I’d have said no. In retrospect, with a different head on my shoulders. Then, yes. Yes I would.
Availability:
Region 1 DVD is pretty easy to find on eBay and the like, but it’s not in abundance so if you’ve half an interest in this one you should grab it while you can.
Trailer:
Not for this one.
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